Men know exactly what they want their women to look like, or do they? Sometimes they may have a idea of their dream girl, but until they meet that special girl, that idea of the dream girl will cease to exist. Men will usually tell you how they think you should look, as if they can define the beauty of a woman! ha, i laugh. They may tell you to wear this or wear that, do your hair this way or that way. It is hard to define femininty. I have a gay guy friend who told me that, he wants to see me wear five inch heels, make up, fake eye lashes and a mini skirt. I had to ask, are you really gay?? lol The point is, no, absolutely not, that is not how i roll and that is not what defines me as a woman. How many of you women out there have changed up your style for a man, just to impress him? But does it make sense to dress for someone else, and not for yourself? No
Truth be told, men won't take those hoochie, koochie girls home to mama, never! In fact, the one with the natural beauty, who finds no woman as her competiton and can hold her own, is the one he marries. Never allow a man let you fall into a trap of, good time girl, subtracting long term girl. Read the Steve Harvey Book, are you a throw back? Be a true dream girl, don't be the fake girl they show in the media. Because i gaurantee you, the minute you subdue yourself to someone's opinion , he will feen for that girl that is naturally beautiful and it will leave you feeling stupid. Think about it, men love Halle Berry, Nia Long, Lauren Hill, Pam Grier? why? because their beauty is more natural, where as men will view Beyonce as sexy, yet seductive and a good time girl. Her beauty is more made up.
A man i met at a club/event once asked me why i was wearing flats. I went on to tell him, because I can. He said," yeah, you can get away with it,although you would look sexier with heels.". A girl, dressed seductively with high heels on walked pass as he was saying that and i said to him,sarcastically " would you rather i look like that?" He replied with, nahh, she's looks good but I wouldn't take her home to mom's , i would rather date a someone like you". Why? Because my beauty is the truth, two snaps, and one twist!
You get the drift? Define yourself. Do You!!! Men can't define femininity, nor beauty all they can do is appreciate it. Your designer, GOD, designed you as a woman before you were even concieved. You've been a woman from day one. While women mature four years faster than men, you knew your gender before he... lol
NO ONE, NOT YOUR FRIENDS, OR YOUR MAN CAN DEFINE YOUR BEAUTY. DO YOU AND I BET YOU WILL LOOK BETTER AND GET WAY MORE ATTENTION, TRUST. THE TRUTH ALWAYS OUTWEIGHS WHAT'S FAKE.