Tuesday, December 28, 2010


Passive men do not exist. Do not believe that they do. Yes, there are men who women go after and spoil. Yes, there are some men who are not as assertive and direct about getting a woman they like. BUT DIG THIS, HE'S CALLING SOMEBODY. HE IS PURSUING SOMEBODY OR SOMETHING. Something is motivating him. If he's been in a relationship before and he's not a virgin, he is not passive.

There are no passive men, he's just passive about you! Even a "passive guy" can be passionate or motivated by something.....

If he's not calling, not dating you, showering you with compliments, jocking you, pursuing you, he's just passive about you!
. He is not passive about calling you. He is not passive about texting you. He is not passive about befrieding you on myspace or facebook. He is not passive about dating nor pursuing you. Every man knows what to do. If he's passive about anything, it's you! He just didn't see your light, he doesn't know a good thing. Whatever the case may be! Be honest about this!

Remember that

Saturday, December 4, 2010

Men Only Remember

3 Types of women

1) The woman they could not have (or the woman who left)

2) The woman they could not conquer/ Tame

3) The woman who made them work for it

Which one do you fall under? because men sure are entertained by the human nature of this process.

What A Man Likes~! *winks*


1. Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.
2. Guys love flirts.
3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4. When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not thinking the way he is.
5. "Are you doing something?" or "Have you eaten already?" are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
7. When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics.
8. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.
9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention.
10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.
12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can't. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!
13. Guys cry!!!!!!!!
14. Don't provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.
15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
17. When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back.
18. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...never mind!" would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.
19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.
20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
21. When a guy makes a prolonged "umm" or makes any excuses when you're asking him to do you a favor, he's actually saying that he doesn't like you and he can't lay down the card for you.
22. When a girl says "no", a guy hears it as "try again tomorrow."
23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
24. Guys hate gays!
25. Guys love their moms.
26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't mean that the guy likes her.
28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
31. Like Eve, girls are guys EUR™ weaknesses.
32. Guys are very open about themselves.
33. It's good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don't let him wait that long.
34. No guy is bad when he is courting.
35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.
36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they're not that much pretty.
37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.
39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.
42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.
43. Guys virtually brag about anything.
44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
45. Guys think too much.
46. Guys' fantasies are unlimited.
47. Girls' height doesn't really matter to a guy but her weight does!
48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!
49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
50. It's not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they've been together for 3 years or more.
51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.
52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be matured and grow up.
53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.
56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he's sweating. You'll probably see that he is nervous.
57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.
58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."
59. Guys don't really have final decisions.
60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.
62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
63. Guys believe that there's no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
65. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.
66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.
67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.
69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!
70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
71. A guy's friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
72. Don't be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.
73. Don't be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you'll be surprised.
74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.
75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.
76. Guys don't comprehend the statement "Get lost" too well.
77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.
78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.
79. Guys don't care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they'll realize they're wrong.
81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He's just too stubborn to deal with it.
82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
83. Guys' weakest point is at the knee.
84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
86. When a guy looks at you, either he's amazed of you or he's criticizing you.
87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you're with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.
90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!
92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
93. When a guy says he can't sleep if he doesn't hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.
95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
96. Girls are allowed to touch boys' things. Not their hair!
97. If a guy says you're beautiful, that guy likes you.
98. Guys hate girls who overreact.
99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships
100. Men really want to wait for the prize (They enjoy the whole feast)
101. Men like to Pursue and enjoy what is unobtainable

Friday, December 3, 2010


I got a word today from Joel Osteen. “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you". Forgive, Forgive, meditate and forgive. We recently discussed seeking God, in order to be prepared for the man you are meant to be with. We also discussed that a man should find a woman and not the other way around. You want to attract the right man and get closer to paradise, follow my advice, forgive. It is so refreshing, you can literally feel weight lifting. In fact, when you forgive, all you're doing is releasing the baggage, heartaches, and disappointments. Releasing is a form of forgiveness. As you release, you will open up shakras and you will be more elevated, and positive, thus making you feel better and attracting the man you deserve.

You want to attract Mr. Right, start with forgiveness of the past, that has developed into a defense mechanism to protect you from being hurt, which has only counter reacted and lead you to closing off the doors to attracting real love. When you forgive past hurts, you value yourself more and thus will attract exactly what you want and that is to be valued.

Start with closing your eyes, and clearing your thoughts, remember to forgive your own self 1st, for being hurt and allowing yourself to walk around holding a grudge, which hurts even more. Forgive yourself for allowing people to have control and power over you whom you have yet to forgive. Think of all the people who have hurt you that have caused your law of attraction 2 work against you. As you release these hurts, you will be more liberated and your life will improve, thus attracting the right

psssst... And "If you build it, it will come"

Ladies repeat this to yourself, "I will permit no man to narrow and degrade my soul by making me hate him."!!!

I realize my annoyance stems from me knowing I'm just 2 good for b.s.

Thursday, December 2, 2010

A Worldly Man vs. A Godly Man

A worldly man vs a Godly man

A worldly man or a man worldly within his approach will never pursue you the right way, in fact, he will do all the wrong stuff. He may be a good hunter but he will never hunt you the right way. He may not even be the dream guy you want. He is usually good looking, manly, has swagger, and has many admirers. He has lots of women, or female friends. He may even be a narcissist. He may be superficial, and materialistic. He might not do the things you wish him to do. He may not say the right things, or he may not treat you as you deserve to be treated. Isn't it so easy to hook up with a worldly man? I wonder why, because it's easy not to follow the rules GOD intended for us to follow. It's easier to just satisfy the flesh. Not to mention the fun you'll have, while doing it. A worldly man believes old wise tails, and he holds you to them. A worldly man fornicates and he wants to have sex with you too. He does not hold tight to his word. He makes false promises. A worldly man is earthly and of the world, so don't be surprised if he thinks you're a little too deep, lol You are too deep for a worldly man. A worldly man plays games and believes that he has to do little to nothing in order to have a woman. A worldly man expects you to chase him, as if he's the woman and when you don't , he accuses you of being old fashioned and or too traditional, instead of biblical and natural! A worldly man knows nothing about chivalry. A worldly man is a talker not a doer. A worldly man falls quick to temptation and he will cheat. Overall, a worldly man will never satisfy your spirit, because he is of a superficial mind state.

A Godly man will understand that he first has to get his self right, before conquering a relationship with a woman. A Godly man is more patient, and he consults GOD for guidance, in choosing and pursuing the right woman. A Godly man will be exactly what you are looking for and there will be no second guessing it. It will just feel right. He won't send mix signals, because his spirit matches his nature and his nature matches his actions. A Godly man brings about the right emotions out of a woman, therefore, you'll be more patient as well. A Godly man knows how to hunt for the woman he desires, in the right way. He is not metro sexual. He is also not down low. He does not wish for a woman to chase after him and he WILL NOT , EVER TREAT A WOMAN WHO IS SPECIAL LIKE JUST ANOTHER ONE. He won't categorize you. A Godly man will not grow impatient and give up on you. He won't let you slip a way because he's already a discerned man. He will learn you, love you, never annoy you, and cherish you. He will suit your spirit.

Men Play a Dangle Game

Men play a dangle game and that game is to say one thing and do another. They may act like they like you and then bam, their actions say another. Has a man ever tried to be sexually active with you, after making it clear that you two were just friends? Has a man ever talked to you about romance, taken you out on a date and then tried to play the friend role on you? He may act like he's attracted to you but shortly refer to you as, friend, buddy, homey, pal, etc. This is his way of playing the dangle game. The dangle game is when a guy dangles a worm in front a fish, leaving you to think about and question his hypocritical behavior, which once your mind is on him, you as the fish, has fail for the worm and hooked yourself into his trap. It's bait, baby. Men know when you like them, they can sense it. It's a sort of six sense they have. Notice how there is never any questions when it comes to a guy you don't like. When a man plays the dangle game with you, it's just his way of setting the motion, having it his way. They all do it, when they feel things can get confused or when they're testing you to see where your mind is. It's also a game. Men who like you but want to keep you at arms length are good at this game. They set the dial straight on you all being friends, but they clearly act like it's more between you. So play his game. Sense him, set your own tone.

And remember this, if a man really wants you, he will come and get you and he will find you. When a man pursues what he wants, he has no need to play these games, because it's purposeless.