We Analyze The Disconnections

Hello, Male Decoded has moved and changed locations. Please refer to my new website at www.maledecoded.com My new blog location will offer more services to my readers. I will no longer write on this site, so please visit new blog site. www.maledecoded.com Follow me @Relationships 1O Why is it that, when it comes to love/ matters of the heart, we only remember the connections we have with our significant others. Yes connections are a good thing, of course but when it's over , it's over and if he's not acting right , then he just ain't acting right. What about those disconnections, which we refuse to acknowledge? Why do we pay so much attention to the connections only, when the signs read otherwise? If you have a connection with someone and all of their actions show you that, then you're safe. However, if you have a connection with someone and you know he just ain't right, perhaps you need to go deeper. Analyze the disconnections. When there are contradictions that support the connection, I believe one has just connected. In other words, there is a difference between "we connected" and "we have a connection". The difference is while you may have connected with a man , there was no deep seething ordained actions, to cause for a connection to be sustained.
Why do we hold on to our "connections" that we feel we have established with men, when every feeling we have is contradictory and quite the opposite. When this contradiction occurs , understand that, you have only connected , no connection was established. When you feel you two sooooo connected, and you're alone or without , then you need to analyze the disconnections immediately. How did you two disconnect?

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