Power: 1 a (1) : ability to act or produce an effect (2) : ability to get extra-base hits (3) : capacity for being acted upon or undergoing an effect
b : legal or official authority, capacity, or right
2 a : possession of control, authority, or influence over others
b : one having such power; specifically : a sovereign state
c : a controlling group : establishment — often used in the phrase the powers that be
d archaic : a force of armed men
e chiefly dialect : a large number or quantity
3 a : physical might
b : mental or moral efficacy
c : political control or influence
Power! It's a funny game. It's something that is played often in matters of love. Don't get it twisted. The sAying is, "All is fair In love and War". Meaning= whatever it takes to gain your power is whatever it takes and winning someone's heart and or a war can mean being deceitful, manipulative , seductive and dirty but in the end, it's all fair because people do it, to win.
Men are about power and it doesn't mean they don't love nor like because they do but those emotions are so intense that, they use power moves to stay in control. It's better to be in control and gain power , rather then being an emotional basket case. Men learn what their power is with a woman early on and they do not give it Away. They will find out what makes you needy of them; what compliments you fish for ; what makes you insecure; what your standards are; etc once they find this owt, it's , boom! KO!! They will not give up whatever it is that hooks you and keeps you coming back for more!
Ladies , find out what your power is. What makes him weak in the knees and keeps him coming back for more? Once you know what it is , do not give that power away. I once had a friend and Soror who was dating a dude and he would complain and complain about how she was emotionally detached. I quickly told her to lighten up just a little , so that she doesn't run him away, but to also hold on to her detached nature because that is her power and it clearly keeps him coming back for more and more!! "Do not give up your power", is what I said! They never do. If a man finds out what drives you crazy, believe you me, he definitely won't be giving his best card away anytime soon.
Never throw away your best card nor reveal your best hand, so whatever it is that he really wants, really needs or is intrigued by, you have that upper hand ;)
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