Hello, Male Decoded has moved and changed locations. Please refer to my new website at www.maledecoded.com My new blog location will offer more services to my readers. I will no longer write on this site, so please visit new blog site. www.maledecoded.com Follow me @Relationships 1O If you're wondering what soul ties is, please refer to my previous blog entries. A small definition to sum it up would be, entering someone's spirit sexually, creating a soul tie. Soul ties, along with the release of the Oxytocin hormone will bond you with the person you sleep with. Oxytocin is a serious hormone , which is only released during the contraction of uterine muscle and secretion of milk. This is why, we are asked to save ourselves for our husband and wife. 1 Corinthians:7 "to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife and let every woman have her own husband". Sex is nothing to play with and you better make sure that whom ever you choose to lay down with, is someone you don't mind creating a soul time with. It's serious business, because you're playing with your soul. That's why they call it soul ties. Sex is the highest form of affection and the greatest form of how a soul tie is created, without a doubt. In addition to that, I personally believe that soul ties can also come in other forms, such as, kissing, fondling, hugging, touching and last but not least, emotional soul ties. Do you know that when you just as much as talk to someone , you are receiving them into your spirit. You are allowing that person to speak into your life. Touching someone allows their spirits to be transferred to you and let me tell you this, you don't know what you might be receiving into your spirit. Kissing can be just as bad. Just as soul ties are created through sexual intercourse, well kissing is wet sex. You exchange saliva, spirits, arouse one another, and bond more. Touching is even worst. While some people may feel that oral sex and or hand jobs and masturbation is innocent and elementary, it isn't. Yes, it's juvenile, and not sex, but it still bonds you , where you don't need to be , with a person, to some extent. God didn't say, have no sex, but do everything else, because it's somewhat innocent. Nope, God wants us to be pure in all forms, leaving us clear minded , so that we are able to recognize our true soul mates, when they arrive. While emotional bonding is the more innocent act of all, it can seriously get you in trouble, because all acts stem from the emotional state first. Like sex, be careful who you lay your emotions down with. Be careful who you like. You can allow someone to speak into your life and spirit, just by having feelings for them. Be very selective with who you like. Every emotion isn't an innocent one and it can get you in trouble.Be careful not to create emotional soul ties with just any old guy. Although sex outside of marriage is not my thing, I learned about emotional bonding, and kissing the hard way. Although it seems like innocent acts, that bond is still created.
Think i'm lying about soul ties? test it. Think of the guys that you have not had sexual intercourse with? Now think of the men that you have gone all the way with. Do you see the difference??!!
Think of the men you have kissed and now think of the men you have never kissed? Think of the men you don't like and the power you have, and now compare them to the men you like and even love?? Big difference huh? Think of the men you have fondled with and now think of the men that you haven't fondled with. There is a difference of soul tie bonding, vs not bonding at all , correctz? Be careful with whom you lay down with. Save yourself, because sex is a very adult action. Its like playing house. Most of all, be careful with who you like and develop feelings for. Guard your emotional self.