Be Totally Single or Totally Taken

Hate to break it to you but, either you are all the way single or you're all the way taken. Anybody ever told you that there is no in between. Men don't have grey areas, well at least real men don't. Men see Black and White colors only, so why do women recognize all the other primary and secondary colors in the color spectral? There is no in between with men. Remember that, men either see you as their woman or not their woman, period.

Either your plane is on a lay over to a relationship town, meaning you're courting for a relationship and or you're plane has a destination to nowhere and no lay over, either. Don't confuse sitting and letting time past your by, with time wasters, as a sign that you actually have a lay over and your patience is leading up to something. Know when you are wasting your time with the wrong man and let that be your fuel to walk away. You don't have to wait to get over anybody. You're a grown woman right? Be single all the way or all the way taken. In other words, if you don't have him the way you want him, you're not being all the way single nor all the way taken. When I say, be all the way single, I mean that.

Meaning no in between. No questions. No debating. No, is he the one questions. No stress. No pain. No lay overs to nowhere. Be all the way single. Meaning , go out , have fun. Date a little but nothing too serious , unless you know for sure that, he wants it to lead to a relationship. Enjoy your life and get yourself together. Love yourself until he comes along.

When I say be all the way taken , what I mean is, make sure he wants you and only you. Make sure he is emotionally available , mature and ready. Make sure he totally loves and adores you . He cares for you and has your best interest at heart. Make sure he has invited you into his world and recognizes you as his woman. Make sure he has showed you off and told the world about you.Make sure he treats you the way you want to be treated. Make sure you're not alone on weekends , holidays and especially not your birthday. Make sure you are his world!
If you can't be all the way taken , then show him what it is, by being all the way single.