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Follow me @Relationships 1OOk, this is a loose blog entry. I'm still learning but one thing I have noticed is, a man's bi polar behavior when it comes to relationships. Men are very bi polar when it comes to women and especially relationships. He loves me/he loves me not, say it ladies! It's a constant battle with these men. One day they want you and the next day they hate you. Men are supreme for having love/hate relationships. The best way to keep them in check and tame that beast is, to be a model for the behavior you would like to see. In other words, be consistent with your emotions, requirements, and needs. If you maintain yourself, and you don't allow yourself to be swayed , he can't do anything but correspond.
Last but not least, in words of my former homegirl, "how you choose your man is the same method you use to choose your friends". Be sure to stay away from friends who are bi polar as well. If you have friends that don't show you love nor make you smile and friends who bring you down, then wa-la, you will also have a man that does the same. To be loved requires love all the way around. It means having good friends around you as we'll
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Showing posts with label loving yourself. Show all posts
Showing posts with label loving yourself. Show all posts
Wednesday, August 7, 2013
Sunday, August 4, 2013
The Difference Between Romance Confidence and General Confidence
General confidence vs romance confidence, is there a difference?
Yep there is. The difference is, one requires positive/ healthy self concept, in general and the other requires believing that you are worthy of being had and believing that you're a catch.
Many people have high self esteem and low romance esteem, while others have high romance esteem and low self esteem. One can also have a combination of both, low self esteem and low romance esteem or high self esteem and high romance esteem. I'm here to talk about people with low romance esteem. When you have low romance esteem , it doesn't mean that, you don't necessarily feel good about yourself. In fact , all that means is that you don't value yourself and or you don't honor your worth. When you don't have high dating esteem, you will not value yourself enough, ever! You won't have standards and you will allow yourself to be manipulated out of them once you set your standards. You have to know your worth, otherwise noone else will and people will be able to talk you out of your value.
A person with high romance esteem will value themselves and know that they are worth being with. You are worth all of your standards, so stop punishing yourself.
Feel good about yourself and have high romance esteem, so that you too can attract a beautiful relationship.
Do not, I repeat, do not take scraps from a man!
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Yep there is. The difference is, one requires positive/ healthy self concept, in general and the other requires believing that you are worthy of being had and believing that you're a catch.
Many people have high self esteem and low romance esteem, while others have high romance esteem and low self esteem. One can also have a combination of both, low self esteem and low romance esteem or high self esteem and high romance esteem. I'm here to talk about people with low romance esteem. When you have low romance esteem , it doesn't mean that, you don't necessarily feel good about yourself. In fact , all that means is that you don't value yourself and or you don't honor your worth. When you don't have high dating esteem, you will not value yourself enough, ever! You won't have standards and you will allow yourself to be manipulated out of them once you set your standards. You have to know your worth, otherwise noone else will and people will be able to talk you out of your value.
A person with high romance esteem will value themselves and know that they are worth being with. You are worth all of your standards, so stop punishing yourself.
Feel good about yourself and have high romance esteem, so that you too can attract a beautiful relationship.
Do not, I repeat, do not take scraps from a man!
Follow me @maletalk101
Wednesday, June 26, 2013
100% Confidence
Ever heard of it?
It's called believing in yourself and allowing no one to take that from you. 100% confidence is about have 0 insecurities. Well of course , everyone has an insecurity, but you can be confident within your insecurities. Be secure, within your insecurities, lol Don't hate yourself if you're unattractive or overweight. Just look yourself in the mirror and accept your flaws and be comfortable with it. Just deal with it. We don't put ourselves down! Save that for haters, your only job is, to love thyself. We don't put ourselves in situations that will undermine our confidence. Never date a man that disrespects you because if he disrespects you, he will respect the next chic. Never allow a man to play with you because you have confidence to maintain. We don't question ourselves and we don't doubt who we are. Ta hell with what people think, because here's the truth: People will soon join your band wagon. If you're 100% secure, people will treat you as your confidence reflects in itself. If its the opposite, people will treat you according to that. Your greatest gift is, self. Do yourself a favor and everyone else by, loving yourself. LET'S COMMIT TO THIS CAMPAIGN.
It's called believing in yourself and allowing no one to take that from you. 100% confidence is about have 0 insecurities. Well of course , everyone has an insecurity, but you can be confident within your insecurities. Be secure, within your insecurities, lol Don't hate yourself if you're unattractive or overweight. Just look yourself in the mirror and accept your flaws and be comfortable with it. Just deal with it. We don't put ourselves down! Save that for haters, your only job is, to love thyself. We don't put ourselves in situations that will undermine our confidence. Never date a man that disrespects you because if he disrespects you, he will respect the next chic. Never allow a man to play with you because you have confidence to maintain. We don't question ourselves and we don't doubt who we are. Ta hell with what people think, because here's the truth: People will soon join your band wagon. If you're 100% secure, people will treat you as your confidence reflects in itself. If its the opposite, people will treat you according to that. Your greatest gift is, self. Do yourself a favor and everyone else by, loving yourself. LET'S COMMIT TO THIS CAMPAIGN.
Monday, June 17, 2013
Getting Closer to finding Mr. Right
Ever heard of Karma? I bet you have but how about law of attraction karma ? or relationship karma?
Law of attraction karma is the part of you that thinks, feels and attracts what you put out into the universe , with your visions, energy and chakras.You attract more of what you put out right , rather negative or positive right ? Just as, with karma , you reap what you sow.
Well , the more you think about something , and align your thoughts , feelings , behaviors , energy , and chakras with it , wala , you shall get it, boo.
With relationship karma , it works the same. What you feel, think , believe and hold within your subconscious , about love , you will also attract into your life, period! Lets go further ! Every encounter you have with a man , from friendships, platonic, dates, to relationships shape your relationship karma! If you feel like being around this man took your further back , instead of two steps ahead , then most likely , he is affecting your relationship karma. However , if being in the presence of a man takes you two steps ahead and gets you even closer to Mr. Right, then bingo! , you have enriched your karma and now you're getting closer to Mr. Right! Remember , either a man is God sent or devil sent. Stay away from any man that will affect your relationship karma in the long run. Your goal should be , to get closer to Mr. Right , in the end. You will attract more of whatever you sow into your life, so be careful of where you drop your seed.
Law of attraction karma is the part of you that thinks, feels and attracts what you put out into the universe , with your visions, energy and chakras.You attract more of what you put out right , rather negative or positive right ? Just as, with karma , you reap what you sow.
Well , the more you think about something , and align your thoughts , feelings , behaviors , energy , and chakras with it , wala , you shall get it, boo.
With relationship karma , it works the same. What you feel, think , believe and hold within your subconscious , about love , you will also attract into your life, period! Lets go further ! Every encounter you have with a man , from friendships, platonic, dates, to relationships shape your relationship karma! If you feel like being around this man took your further back , instead of two steps ahead , then most likely , he is affecting your relationship karma. However , if being in the presence of a man takes you two steps ahead and gets you even closer to Mr. Right, then bingo! , you have enriched your karma and now you're getting closer to Mr. Right! Remember , either a man is God sent or devil sent. Stay away from any man that will affect your relationship karma in the long run. Your goal should be , to get closer to Mr. Right , in the end. You will attract more of whatever you sow into your life, so be careful of where you drop your seed.
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