Friday, August 31, 2012
Why Rush ?
Why Rush , when time fly's? Congratulations, we now live in microwaveable society. We want everything fast, now, quick and in a hurry. Today's society is in a rush. We want relationships, education, success, and friendship, with the same amount of density that we want our fast food? Now! But you can't do that with relationships, friendships, success, education, etc. You have to work hard for the things that require gradual steps. Relationships are no different and work the same way. You must build rapport,in order to make the flower grow. You cannot rush knowing someone. AS for me, you can't rush information from me. I'm an acquired taste, that one must take the time to know and learn. Any man entering my realm is an understudy, simply a young grasshopper. It takes time. When you meet someone, things may seem cool, but you don't know that persons family history, quirks, likes , dislikes, pet peeves,sexuality, nor his idiosyncrasies, so don't act like you do. Hell, you don't even really know if you get along with the person yet. When you don't know a person, trust that, you don't know them. Rushing this process is dangerous to the birds eye. Dangerous, dangerous, dangerous! Be careful, you never know who you're talking to. That person could have a police record, a bad temper, mental health record, abusive tendencies,etc. He could also be a nice, and normal guy, but you don't know that yet, now do you? Never let a guy interview you, answer what you want, but always interview him! Now due to the time, days, weeks, months and earth moving at a more rapid speed than ever before, time fly's, so there's no need to rush. When you rush things, and the speed of lightening is already moving at a rapid pace, you are doubling up your speed. When you don't have to, because the earth is already doing that for you. When I look at how long I have known people and how long I have known the new people I just met, i think to myself, boy time fly's, so why rush a relationship, or getting to know someone. You have the speed of earth on your side, so don't rush. Take your time, time fly's.