Friday, August 3, 2012
Different Types of Men
The Gentleman: He loves women. He was either raised right, has a good relationship with his mother, had an admirable dad, who taught him how to be a man and or he has a good head on his shoulder. He usually comes from a good family background. He's wholesome, all the way. He might even be a man of God. He opens doors, orders for you, keeps his promises, treats you with respect and adores you. He's reliable, worthy, upfront, communicative and has integrity. He likes to do for women. He treats all women great. The Lover: He loves women! He will uplift you and make you feel like a queen. This guy is a winner and needs to be a role model for all men.
The Relationship Guy : This guys goes from relationship to relationship. One chic after the next. He is in love with the idea of love. This guy doesn't value the actual woman. What he values is, the idea of not being alone.
The Player: This guy likes women, like a man likes money. He commits to no one. He treats women like pieces of meat.
The Control Freak: This guy wants to know all areas of your life, what you're doing, who you're doing it with, and how you're gonna do it..
The Ambiguous Guy: This guy leaves you guessing. You never know how he feels. You don't know if he has a girlfriend or not. You never know if he likes you or not. You don't even know if he's straight or gay. This guy will never make you feel desirable, in fact, he's the, he loves me , he loves me not kind of guy. He is a non verbal communicator, that sends two sided messages. Eff him.
The Womanizer This guy loves to toy with a woman's emotions. It's like dangling a carrot before her. He just wants to be desired and wanted. He loves to exploit women and play with their emotions,just to see how many women can fall for him, but it will always be at your expense. He doesn't care about you and has no heart. He just likes to play the game, just to see how many women he can attract. It's all about his ego being stroked. This is an insecure man.
The Married Type This guy has been married more than once, more than twice and in some cases, more than three times. He marries women,as if he's jumping into a relationship. For him, marriage means nothing more than a girlfriend on liability. Marriage assures him that,she ain't going nowhere and will be there when he returns at night. Marriage is more of an insurance plan.
The Non Committal Man: This guy will make you feel like he will wife you, but its his charm that throws you off. He will never commit to you, but will leave you with the suspense that he will. This man = Broken promises, which = broken hearts.
The Narcissist Delusions of grandeur define this guy. Grandiosity with a capitol G. He is self centered, all about him and self absorbed. He's a taker not a giver. He believes he is God's gift to women. He isn't a Godly man. He does not worship nor praise God. In fact, he's so disrespectful,he has a God complex. He believes that he is the prize and the ultimate guide to happiness for a woman. He believes that he is her provider and the day he entered her life, he brought joy and his commitment to her made her the happiest woman alive. He believes his presence is enough. He pretty much believes that he's the shit, although, he ain't shit.
The Unsure He may love you Monday and Hate you Tuesday. He's never consistent with whatever he promises. What he says is what he believes for that moment. He is confused about what he wants, and he is confused about you.
The Attention Seeker: This guy craves attention and yearns for it. He will exploit you at your expense, just to get the attention his narcissistic supply oh so needs. He may be a narcissist, misogynist, an ego maniac, or an insecure freak. Call it what you want, he just needs a fan club.