Monday, July 8, 2013

A Man's Reverse Psychology

Hello, Male Decoded has moved and changed locations. Please refer to my new website at My new blog location will offer more services to my readers. I will no longer write on this site, so please visit new blog site. Follow me @Relationships 1O I believe that God puts Noone who dislikes you in your path to help you. If a person dislikes you, then most likely they cant do a damn thing for you! With that being said, the same applies for men. Men know women are powerful and so what they do is, give you the cold shoulder , keep you at arms length , ignore you, play hard to get games, in order to keep you dangling and coming back for more! It's a reverse psychology tactic. The less interested they are in you, the more interested you are in them. It's a game. Men do this to keep themselves from succumbing to a woman's power and seduction , therefore, they are able to continue playing women and getting what they want from women. If men let you know what your power was, then there would be no more chess games nor power struggles. There would be millions of blue balls and broken souls. Men don't want you to know this , therefore they play reverse psychology games. I personally believe that, men who Mistreat you, play you, lie to you, are emotionally unavailable , negative , lack chivalrous behavior are only acting as a smoke screen to prevent you from seeing the facts. The fact of the matter is, a man who is throwing nothing but shade, rejection and disses has nothing , absolutely nothing to offer you! That is the reason for his smoke screen behavior. He wants to keep you guessing , so that you are distracted by what's really going on and that's absolutely nothing! If a man can help you, and add to your life to make it better , he will be easy to understand , lovely to take home, a gentleman= no drama! A man with something to offer will be of no drama because has no reason to play games nor bring hell to your life , spiritually and emotionally , because he has much to Bring to the table. Once a pon a time , I dated a horrible Leo guy for about five seconds and he was broke suddenly and picked a fight with me and as a result , we did not go out. My friend suggested that he was broke and was picking a fight because he didn't have the decency to tell me he didn't have any money to take me out. Come to find out , she was right and he admitted it. He picked a fight , insulted me , said untruthful things about me and confused the hell out of me , manipulated me, all because he didn't have any money and was at a lost. What a petty demon spawn. Reverse psychology ! A real man with something going for his self doesn't have time for that. Remember that. If he's dissing you, confusing you, stressing you , cheating on you , making your life a living hell or mistreating you , and rejecting you, then most likely , he's simply doing those things because he can't do anything for you and he has nothing to offer.

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  1. I love this new insight! I came on here to look up how to use reverse psychology to get him to call me but now I don't even want to talk to him! I never thought of it in these terms but after reading this and looking back @ past situations I have been in with men it rings so true!!!! Thank you so much for this article!

  2. Great reminder thank you. It's funny that as women we work harder to try to prove ourselves to these kind of men who have nothing to offer in the first place and aren't even worth our time. I think it's just hard to deal with rejection of any kind so we step up our efforts to try to gain their attention and approval it's really a waste of time and effort that we should be spending on ourselves and trying to meet better quality men

  3. If your man is pushing you away and acting distant

    Or if the guy you’re after isn’t giving you the time of day...

    Then it’s time to pull out all the stops.

    Because 99% of the time, there is only 1 thing you can say to a standoffish guy that will grab him by the heartstrings-

    And get his blood pumping at just the thought of you.

    Insert subject line here and link it to: Your ex won’t be able to resist?

    Once you say this to him, or even send this simple phrase in a text message...

    It will flip his world upside down and you will suddenly find him chasing you-

    And even begging to be with you.

    Here’s what I’m talking about:

    Insert subject line here and link it to: Is your man hiding something? He may need your help?

    Thanks again.