DATE EM , LEAVE HIM, I DON'T WANT HIM. lol
Date like a man. Have fun, let loose, say to your self, ooh, "he's cute". Have friends, talk on the phone, etc. Never let him dictate your speed. Think like a man, differentiate when he's Mr. Right, or just a fling.
Flirt with him and all his friends. Remember to take nothing serious, just like you're a man.
Accept yourself for who you are, never lower your standards just because you want to appease him. Love yourself, flaws and all, and never second guess what you want out of life and who you are.