It's important to start off as friends first. I know, i know, you want the Cinderella fairy tale, but in reality that never happens over night, if at all! Believing in being swept off of your feet in one night, well that's just hopeless romantic thinking. Even if you want a relationship, you still must understand that you need to opearate as a friend around a man, for your own protection. Plus love will not ever happen over night, even if you want it to. That's unrealistic. You can connect with someone deeply, upon meeting them, especially if they're cool, but how can you jump from 0-60 in one day. Keep it real. I mean, are you really digging the guy or just in love with the idea of love? Love takes time, so if he is playing Mr. Too Smooth over night, he's not looking for anything serious and he's playing on your emotions to get a reaction. Play it lightly, be cool and be friendly. Plus, he may not be the one and men are use to women wanting a relationship with them, so be different and never desperate. Operate on the, "he's just a cool guy", until you see otherwise.
AND LADIES NEVER GIVE IT UP. SAVE THAT FOR THE ONE. YOU GIVE IT UP, AND IT'S GONE. TRUST ME. THE KEY TO THIS GAME IS, CLINK, CLINK. LOCK IT DOWN. YOUR BODY IS A TEMPLE AND IT IS FOR ONE MAN, A SPECIAL MAN. NEVER MISTAKE LOVE AND AFFECTION FOR A MAN'S SEXUAL APPETITE. THE KEY TO SUCESS IS NOT GIVING UP YOUR PRECIOUS JEWLES. WHY DO THAT ANYWAY, TO NOT END UP WITH THE GUY IN THE FIRST PLACE.. SAVE YOURSELF FOR THE ONE YOU WILL END UP WITH.
WHY DO YOU THINK I KNOW SO MUCH. MY BODY IS A TEMPLE AND I KNOW THAT, IT BELONGS TO ME AND GOD. BUT I'M ALSO REALISTIC AND I KNOW THESE MALE AND FEMALE CHALLENGES EXIST. BE VIRTUOUS, BE VIRGINAL AND BE KIND TO YOUR TEMPLE.