IF HE WAS YOUR BROTHER WOULD YOU BE??

IF HE WAS YOUR BROTHER OR FRIEND, WOULD YOU BE SO CONFUSED?

If you were having a contest for someone to win your friendship over, would you choose him? In other words, what makes you feel that someone wants to befriend you? They're excited to be around you, right? They call, right? They act very interested in you, right? they never let you down? They support you? They're caring and attentive? They appear to like you? Right. Okay, so then why are you so confused about how he feels about you? Don't question it. When a man likes you, he will come off similar to someone trying to befriend you and win your friendship over, accept with a little romance on the side.

How does your brother come off? A good brother, well he's supportive, protective and gives good advice, right? He's there for you. He calls you, checks on you and makes sure you're happy.

The point is, the reason why its so confusing figuring these guys out is, because we tend to analyze men, from a romantic lens, instead of as a person. How is he as a person? Does he remain the same from the beginning through the end?

Observe him, as if he's a regular human being. Learn about him as a person and not as your man. View him as a candidate, who's interested in your company.