Tuesday, June 5, 2012

Men Love Bitches

Why Men Love Bitches? Women spend so much time trying to appease a man. We cater, we give in and we compromise, but why? Men love Bitches. Women spend so much time internalizing anything that makes her feel bad. For example,we allow societal standards, magazines, TV, and a man's standards to stand in the way of self acceptance and self love. While men come "as is" merchandise, women constantly look to alter themselves at their own expense. Men sale what they have, no matter who and what they are. They have an attitude that says, "hey, this is me, flaws and all". Women, no matter who you are, be confident in your position. Ever watch Basketball Wives? Evelyn on the show is very angry, ratchet, and temperamental, yet people accept her as she is and why? People accept her because she comes "as is". She is confident in every flaw and every good trait that she has. Be yourself, have some self respect and only then, will giving a man the middle finger, when he deserves it, will be such a relief! Every woman must have that walk away factor in relationships. Accept yourself and for any man who doesn't accept you, kick him to the curb. Secondly, no man wants a woman that he can just have. I mean , anything he didn't have to lift a finger for to have, he will devalue. Men would like to believe that they have a woman that is not easily obtainable.Why? because then he knows he has a woman that wanted him, and not just a woman who's in love with the idea of love. = Men love Bitches. Thirdly, men need to be checked. Men need rules and men need to know when they are out of line. No matter how big, no matter how small the matter is, men need to be called out on their shit. They respect women who do so, why you ask? because men love bitches. A man knows when he is out of line, and if you don't call him out on it or at least alter your behavior to reflect the deed, he loses respect. Finally, men complain , but the women they rant about the most, are the bitches they claim to hate. The bitches that drive them crazy, so to say. The women who give them a run for their money are the women they secretly love. Stand your ground, be yourself, love yourself, and speak your mind. If he can't handle it, laugh and tell him, next stop please. "In order to win in relationships and be happy , you have to be with the right guy. Until you meet the right guy, all relationships will end mad, sad or bad" For more information on men who love bitches, pick up the book. "Why Men Love Bitches"

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