SEX, SEX, SEX. Everywhere you turn around that's what everyone is talking about, as if its some sort of trend or something. The STD rates and HIV rates and all other sexually transmitted disease rates are higher than they have ever been. Who would have known that, sex would become a national, cultural trend, like getting new Jordans. It's no wonder people put virginal women on a pedistol, scrutinize or disbelieve her when she expresses her need to wait.
Well girlfriend, I'm here to tell you this, don't give it up!!! A man only respects a woman's body whom he had to wait for. If you don't believe me, just observe how he talks to you, touches you and treats you before he recognizes your body as a temple and not just a whole to penetrate. When he associates you as just a sexual object, he no longer treats you as delicately as he treats the wholesome girl who makes him wait! In fact, when you make him wait, he then views you as a person, a human being, a lady, a woman of class and not just, junk in trunk. Do not give it up ladies. This world is far to corrupted to be having casual sex. In fact, until men can become masculine men as they once were, who are leaders by nature and hunters, I don't think you should give it up at all. Many women think they can teach a man a lesson, once he's messed up. I got news for you, until a man can accept responsibility for being a man, a pursuer and his life is in order, as Steve Harvey would say and he is righteous, he won't learn his lesson and if you've given it up to him, you have even more on your plate because now he's confused. He's not a responsible real man, he's not taking care of business, yet he gets the reward of a woman's body and now she wants to teach him a lesson, instead of not giving him any in the first place. You want to teach a man a lesson? Well the best way to do it is, to not give him any in the first place. Besides, in the words of Kirk Franklin, "sex out of wedlock confuses things". Don't be a horn ball ladies, save face.
If you've already made a mistake, then forgive yourself and start over fresh, the right way. Don't continue with your old patterns.
Every girl isn't wholesome and virginal, but you can be virtuous and live the right way.
DON'T GIVE IT UP, MAKE HIM PUT A RING ON IT FIRST!