Saturday, January 30, 2010

Leo Men

This isn't an astrological blog, but from time to time, we'll throw it all out there!

Leo Men, ever heard of them? They are some of the most difficult men in the zodiac. They are very charming, cunning, and sweet. Sure he comes off as confident, self assured, protective and loving. He is the best man to choose, if you want a long term relationship and or a clingy, possessive man. Don't be fooled by his exterior. Internally, this man is storming with insecurities, ego problems, and superiority complexes. Getting along with him won't be easy. He can be the world's most charming and the world's biggest liar. He can be aggressive and abusive, so be careful. They are sort of like chameleon's. They can be whatever they perceive the world wants them to be. They will tell you exactly what you want to hear. This man is the biggest actor. Only time will tell who he really is. Very dangerous man to get involved with, unless he's an ethical guy, which is a rare. They take almost everything the wrong way. If you ask him to do something, he'll respond with, " no!". They take many things literally, as if you're commanding them to do something. Leo men do not like be told what to do, and they will rebel against any tone that sounds assertive. They are very stubborn. Leo men have to be in control! They also have many secrets. Don't be surprised if he's cheating or hiding something. They usually don't show their true colors, to afraid of being disliked for who they really are. Leo men are the most sensitive men, when it comes to being disliked. They can't stand being hated. And why does it seem like they always want to be married. Every time I turn around, a Leo man is proposing, or trying to get married. Be careful, they usually try to get commitments, so that they can keep you around. He wants to run the show, so don't be surprised if he rejects all your initiations. Leo men are just about the only men in the zodiac, who women don't miss nor reminisce over. His ego is fragile and he is easily hurt. He takes everything personal. He's sensitive like a woman. Leo men love drama. I almost believe they start stuff, just to get a reaction out of you. They love friction and they love feisty women. If he dumps you, don't be offended, it probably has nothing to do with you. Gladly move on and be lucky. If you're dating a leo man, be careful, he can be quite aggressive and may have tendencies of abuse. In fact, he's not as bold and strong as you think he is. Even the lion from the wizard of oz lacked courage!

Now, this zodiac stuff isn't to be used to justify shortcomings and or explain good traits. This isn't an astrological blog, It's just for fun, so if you happen to find a great Leo guy, lol, have fun.. Who knows, he may be the one.

You can't predict God.

39 comments:

  1. wow! I have been reading your blogs and they are fantastic! This one I find neat because I dated a Leo man and he broke up with me. It is funny how A LOT of these relate to him also! It is so crazy. Thanks for the post, you are awesome

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    1. Mindy, clearly that guy is a joke and it his lost, if he lost you! Smooches and continue to read my blogs. I appreciate your emails and messages.I welcome your comments. :)

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    2. Leo man aquarius woman. ..help..

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  2. im involved with a leo guy. Yeah, he is unpredictable..he can say stuffs just to test your reaction..drama drama...one time we chatted online he told me not to chat with anyone else. The nerve got to use some guy from a chatroom to msg me..i did reply to the boy...then the nerve, he suddenly asked me like who else im talkin with...and he said im a liar coz i talked to another guy,and hes really proud he caught me. Then when i started ignoring him,he was like bullying me online,read my avatar that says MY LIFE IS BASED ON A TRUE ST0RY, then he was being bitter and said, maybe more of HORROR STORY. Hes like a boy whos needs are not met, and throws temper tantrums..

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    1. I'm a Leo guy and I'd have dumped you right away if you can't obey me

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    2. Wow everything about this is true!!!never again I'm dating a leo man.. omg !!!!stay away from me!!!$

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  3. OMG, Abie Abucay, that guy sounds like a immature jerk. He is very crazy. In fact, most Leo men are. I don't know what is wrong with them, but one things for sure, he doesn't sound like he's worth any of your time! Dump him and move on, because he's got issues.

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  4. Jithin Jose, please get real. "obey you" You guys don't have dominion over anybody, so please stop it.
    You are very delusional to believe that you can rule over anyone. lol and smh

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    1. I'am deeply offended by your prejudice towards Leo men. As a proud Leo male, i think we are called to lead if not dominate, and you know why? because we do it right. Yes, we may be a little egostical but we care.

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    2. Gael, leo men rocks in the boardroom. The ones I dated looks good on paper. In the realtionship though it's a different story.

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  5. I'm a gay man that has a younger Leo male living with me. he says he's interested in exploring a relationship (or sex) with me. he has lived with me for 30 days and hasn't said or made the first move. I'm a Gemini and the attraction is def there. I'm not patient as he wants to get to know me first before he can have sex with me. I'm afraid I will loose interest before he comes around. he's jealous and wonders where I go or who called, so he must care. but...I'm ready for sex or some kind of validation that we are together and not just roommates.

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  6. I already have deep feelings for him and don't want to loose him but it's making crazy not getting on with things, even slow is fine but he has to show some interest or I will loose interest. I know it's hard for him, especially coming out of a relationship but he lives with me and we spend all our time together. at some points I get mad at the situation and I don't want to start avoiding him and then resenting him bi know its a lot and he has done well up until now. somebody please give me some advice, I love this guy!

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  7. this post started off great but ended making the leo man sound like a messed up monster... are they really that bad? agreed, pretty and charming on the outside but insecure, controlling and demanding behind doors.

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    1. You got it! They are serious monsters! Think about it. They are charming cool and confident on the outside but very insecure and control freaks on the inside! Notice my two blog entries, comments above , emails on Leo man issues and countless online forums about how difficult and crazy these men really are. My advice for anyone is, stay away from these borderline personality men or risk getting burned!

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    2. Oh that's nonsense!!! We not monsters godamnit, i have a Cancer friend who's even monstrous at keeping secrets. He expects me to "read between the lines" that's why you guys should condemn not our flamboyant life style.

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    3. There's nothing wrong with having a flamboyant lifestyle. What's wrong is leo men thrive from outside source of approval. They seem more emotional.

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  8. Who cares what those people think!. They;re not worth my time or energy. Just don't f-with me alright and we will be fine-really.

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  9. I have to agree with Investigatir...
    I was in a seven month LDR relationship with a Leo man recently. When we first met he was sweet and loving and was happy to have met me, because he said I was the perfect woman for him. He said I was the one he'd been searching for. We both fell head over heels in love. We continued to make future plans together. He said all the right things. He texted every day, told me he loved me and that he couldn't wait to be with me... Etc.
    Three months later I decided to fly out to see him for his birthday. I was nervousness and told him I was. He made me feel better by telling me not to be afraid that he'd take care of me. However, from the moment I got there, he was no longer the man I'd been making future plan with.
    He was cold, arrogant, conceited. He was not loving, unkind. He hardly gave me the time of day. I was so hurt. Long story short. He ends up breaking up with me on the fourth day of my visit. He simply said, "he no longer felt the same for me." I was blown away. I'm thousands of miles away at his place, and now he decides, he's done? Really?...
    I mean, we both are at an age where you'd think there wouldn't be games. He's 53, I'm 50. I thought he was more mature. I was so so wrong about him.
    So although I didn't go into every detail about what transpired during my visits with this idiot, Investigator hit it right on the nose. This man was everything she described!

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  10. I was dating a Leo man as his girlfriend this past summer. He dumped me because i went over to his place uninvited. There was a guy at his place who was basically scrambling to leave without me seeing him. The Leo guy i was seeing explained the guy as being some "transiant" friend who comes and goes. It doesnt take a genius to put 2 and 2 together......

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  11. Well the leo guy I know acts like he's in a fantasy type movie most of the time. Like Twilight. He's all romantic and smooth sexy and then dramatic love our life drama comes out of nowhere. It looks like he's playing a role. To me it's hilariously obvious. But I keep it lowkey as I know things. Lol ~ThatLibraFreak~

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  12. just imagen a lion
    - you hurt his pride he will rip you into pieces
    -you love him he will make you feel like his your queen
    -you want to dominate over a leo man ? get his mothers numbers asap ! leo man are like kittens when it comes to their parents
    -he will bury his madness but not his anger his anger can be outrageous arguing is useless with them... just go to somewhere for a while let them calm down and he will come after you...
    - his tastes are usually simple but they are "his tastes" he will not allow even his parents to change tastes
    -that being said you cant change his destination or his ideas good luck with that if you want to
    -they suck at lying and if they are lying they have a very good reason
    -they will take on the world with bare hands to protect their loved ones without a second thought
    whats wrong with them they have a pride without ego that renders them almost unpredictable and even psychopathic
    and im a leo man myself

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  13. Investigator are you a leo?
    I dated three Leo's and boy they are full of unwanted surprises. The first one lets call him Mike. Mike seem loyal, I don't know if him being in the US Navy help shaped his attitude. He broke up with me because according to him he didn't feel that I need him. I am a gemini and it's true that gemini's needs space and leo's are too clingy for me. I did not stopped him from leaving. I told him if that's what he wanted It's ok and wish him the best. A month later, he texted me and asked if I ever thought of him and he wanted me back. I told him we had our chance and once is enough. He was married three times before I met him. I thought that was a red flag.
    the 2nd guy was Robert. We went out for a month. Full of BS which I was able to see early on. The 3rd guy was Brian. A 46 yr. old bachelor. Manipulative, cunning, beautiful liar, cheapskate, selfish in and out the bedroom. These men were all clingy, always have ulterior motive, have hugh ego that needs to be stroke constantly. They all look good on paper but that's pretty much it. I have not met a leo who is a good guy. I wonder if they exists.
    For some reason I seem to attract these guys.

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    1. I've been dating a Leo man for eight months now but we've known each other for three years. We tried dating three years ago but it only lasted two weeks and that was because of some miscommunication. July of 2013 we tried again and omg the passion that was there three years ago was still there, i could feel it within the way he held me when he kissed me, it was like one of this hugs you give someone you haven't seen forever and you missed them a lot. I even asked him about the hug he said he had really missed and wished he had never stopped talking. What ive noticed being with my leo man if i don't give him affection or attention it hurts him and he feels that ive gotten bored with him and found someone else, i have to reassure him that hes wrong. I tell him everyday how much i love him, and how sexy or sweet ,handsome, etc. he is. And i honestly DON'T mind giving him that affection he loves it and i love him. He makes me feel important when he goes out of his way to spend time with me, or when he gets a little jealous at other guys hitting on me, he doesn't take it out me or even says he is i can tell when he becomes over protective about me infront of other guys. Hes been incredibly patient with me and my insecurities. I sometimes belive so hard that hes just there for the sex, but i dont stop to think about the eight months we've been together and all the fights, or immaturity hes put up with from my side and hes still stayed. This man truly cares about me and im thankful everyday with how patient hes been with me and i tell him. Ofcourse ive dealt with his side of bs as well, whenever we get into a big fight and he says things like i don't want this anymore or i think we should just be friends ill go right along and agree with him, ooooh he doesnt like the idea of me being able to move on so he'll come right back with something to keep me talking, and we never walk away from one another no matter how mad we are. I know his little game, i know he likes to stir up drama over little things, ill let him have his drama but ill call him out fast on it and he'll drop it and apologize. I let him be the center of attention how he likes, i shower him with compliments everday, remind hin how important he is to me, at time dress nice for him so he can show me off how he likes and in return i get the caring affectionate protective leo man i want. :-)

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  14. Fyi im a gemini woman :-) leo men and gemini women get along incredibly well

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  15. Fyi again lol....not all leo men are monsters, it depends who youre with. Some really are just big babies inside and need alot of love. And if you show that leo man how much you love him he'll give you that affection, caring and protectiveness you want from him. You have to be willing to put up with his child tendency and have alot i mean ALOT of love to give him.

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  16. Hi Malorie, I salute you for putting up with your leo man. That's what I noticed to. My leo ex loves drama but unlike you, I don't have much tolerance for that. It feels like having a pet that I have to continue to pet. I have a son and he doesn't even pout like the leo man. It was all about him. You are right about a leo man being a big baby. It's me....me....me. What annoys me the most is he was 9 years older than me, he was 46, I was 37. Can't and won't put up with it. Don't need another child.

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  17. I am exactly in that dangerous kind of situation with Leo man. He lies much, he enjoys abusing me while I am a loving caring Cancer woman. My friends introduced him to me for marriage, this is our old culture that I don't like. But little by little I see I can't trust him, he may just have the idea of making sex with me although he claimed he is looking for a good wife. He humiliates me and I cry and cry ... he fights me while I want to make peace ... I just wander what type of creature he is ... I feel he is acting. I asked my friends to pray for me for my strength to be able to forget him. He has gay friends and also addicted ones. I wander why I continue talking to him ... it was because I was very lonely and liked to have LOVE in my life. Thank you for helpful blog.

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    1. Pegy, stop crying and start fighting back. Not necessarily fight physically, not verbally either, but just pull back and no contact. Leo's are vain. I dated one who had his hair shaved because a friend of his told him he look younger with his head shaved. Leo's deeply care about what other people say about them as if they breath through it so If you fight verbally, hit him where it hurts. They can't stand being ignored and they can't stand when they see you happy. He want you to be mesirable because that's how he feel deep inside despite their "happy look" on the outside. They are the most insecure human beings. Keep in mind, we treat people how to treat us!

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    2. @ Emy: Thank you for your reply and sharing your experience :-) Actually he is getting worse. Now he is sure I have a kind heart and have accepted all his bad tricks and behavior. We are in a long-distance relationship. But 2 nights ago when he got angry, I tried to talk to him as usual and he got very rude and threatened me that if I don't change my behavior, he wont tolerate me!!!! Strange! I have decided not to that nice to him anymore because is taking all my love and care for granted. Thank you again!

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    3. Sadly, your kind heart is not going to work to win him over. It sounded like he is using it against you. Hopefully, you can walk away when you feel that you are deteriorating mentally and emotionally. The real price that you have to pay is when you loose yourself.

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    4. Yes, true Emy! All you said is so true. I need to walk away. There are many saddening details. Thank you for your reply!

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  18. @ Pegy, what I noticed about Leo men is if you fight back they behave like little boys hiding behind their mom's skirt. They are like bullies, they will walk all over you if you let them. Fight back, you will noticed their demeanor towards you changes. He would respect you more. Leo men pry on weak women for their own gratification. I'm with a leo man. He tries to 'bully' me but I've read enough about them and I learn to give right back what I get from him. I call him on his crap right away and he behaves like a little puppy.

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    1. @ Pegy Green- I agree with Emy Mar. I am too am a Cancer woman (July 15) dealing with a Leo male (August 15). I was just told by him that he had cheated on me and got the woman pregnant but now he REALLY wants to be with me. He's talking marriage and meeting parents and everything now. I was hurt and emotional but I loved him so much, plus we've been in each others lives for 11 years, I told him that I could forgive his infidelity and accept his baby. As of this date, it has been 2 1/2 weeks since he told me and I tried to move in a way that showed I was optimistic and wanted to try- but telling me that he cheated, the lies, the anger he gave me when I suspected him of cheating (because my intuition told me he was long before he actually said it), pushing me away, ignoring me, putting me off for friends, ignoring my calls, and being so very very mean to me AND the fact that he already has a 3 year old with another woman... made me have doubts and when I expressed that he demanded that I make a decision and stick to it! It's been 2 1/2 weeks since you told me and you want me to make a decision that changes my life?!!! Right now?!!! The nerve of his arrogant behind!!! We argued and argued. I calmed down and tried to extend olive branches and peace offerings to the best of my emotional abilities. Because at this point my nerves are shot, the trust is almost non-existent, and his cheating has caused me to look at myself as inadequate- but I'm still choosing to give it all I got with the little that I have. And he had the nerve to not only refuse all of my peace offerings but then tell me in a very angry and yelling way that his work has been affected because of me. Meanwhile I have not even been to work this particular day because I'm so depressed over the situation! That. Was. The. Last. Straw. The was the last and final insult, blow, slap in the face that I would allow myself to take from his angry self absorbed behind!!!! And Pegy Green, I let his azz have it!!!!! I hit him with an arsenal of things that I KNEW would hurt and then told him to keep it as a grudge towards me so that he never comes back! After being with and around someone for 11 years you observe and experience their weaknesses. And I hit him with every single weakness I knew of and still managed to leave some out. I was very mean and disrespectful- on purpose!!!! Because I had had it. Here I am trying but he was being so unappreciative and self-absorbed and just angry. I guess I hit him in all the right places because he cowered all the way down and started telling me he loved me and that he just could not let me go. Amazing!!!! When I was being nice and exhausting myself you didn't want it but now that I have snapped- here you are?! Drama. They love drama! Pegy Green, you're going to have to allow yourself to get so angry that you chop him alllll the way down to size. Trust me a Cancer can conquer a Leo! But you have to mean it. You have to get fed up. Depending on their mood Leo's are not super responsive to emotional upsets like ours (Cancers) so crying and crying to him will not appeal to anything in him. So you have to give them a dose of there own medicine. But be prepared to walk away. You'll get there. You will. You'll get to the point where you want quality and not quantity. Truth be told there is a weakness in you right now that he senses and takes advantage of. So this is probably why he doesn't respect you. But if you assert yourself and become the strong Cancer woman that you KNOW you can be- he WILL bow down. Make him feel like an option and he will give you attention so that you will get back to a place that he is your priority. Leo's cant stand to be seen as optional. They want ALL the attention! Stand tall on those six legs we Cancers have, gurl!!!!! And if for whatever reason he decides to leave you- let him leave. Do not put up and fight or object. Let it happen and he will try to come back. At that point you have control and you can make the decision if it will be yes or no.

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    2. Keisha, I explained my situation above replying to Emy. Thank you for sharing your experience! And I'm so sorry he cheated and hurt you ... I hope you can have a good relationship with him if he has really changed. He stopped talking to me lately after a very rude behavior and yes, as you say, I think he knows my weak points and also my loneliness and problems and he is taking advantage of it. Life looks like a fight to him and he thinks I am caring so here I am. I am trying to stop thinking of him or change my behavior. I really need advice when I am alone and confused with his complicated personality. Thank you again :-)

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  20. Right on Keisha! These leo men doesn't get moved by women's tears. They will be laughing silently at women they can bully. These men are exhausted to be around with. They will say anything to get what they want. They are expert manipulators so watch out because these men always have their best interest in mine. Your leo man probably thinks that you put up with his crap for 11 years, you're going to put up with another 11 yrs.

    I told my leo that he has a tiny you know what and that he's not all that so he better practice humility because he's going to end up in the nursing home in his diaper alone if he keep doing what he's doing to women. I told him that I did not care what his size is but at least he can show something about him that is worth loving. After that, I changed my phone number but he knows where I live and he has my work phone. He showed up at my place with flowers. We talked. I lay down my requirements on how I want to be treated. He agreed. He still not off the hook. He is still under observation by me.

    Follow through with what you say you will do. Only then he will view you as someone he can respect. Keep in mind, Leo's are good liars. He can easily talk his way into a woman's pants. Good Luck!

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  21. HOW I GOT MY HUSBAND BACK!!! i want to say a very big thanks and appreciation to Prophet Ekpiku for bringing back my husband who left i and the kids for almost two months. i am very much grateful to Prophet Ekpiku. I pray God almighty give you the strength and wisdom to help more people having similar problem like mine. for help you can reach him on his email address:Ekpikuspelltemple@live.com

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  22. Holy crap! I dated a Leo man for a week and a half and it was all turmoil from the get go. Everything you described here he embodies. Huge ego(which I now believe was a front) and never failed to remind me of his career successes and multiple degrees as if that balances out and justifies poor behavior. He was clingy immediately, threw around the L word way too soon (like, "you are someone I could love") and he was a smooth talker, very cunning and pulled me in and pushed me away multiple times. When I said this will never work he was verbally abusive and juvenile at that. He couldn't handle the rejection. What's sad is I could see thru the exrerior and saw his insecurities and softer side which drew me in further. I was dumbfounded by his words and behavior and NEVER IN MY LIFE met such a mess of a man. It's sad to be nearly 50 unable to relate to people, to women on a real honest level. He wanted NO drama but he started arguments all the time and turned it on me when I defended myself saying bi didn't know how to stop myself. What??!! I now know it was never about me.... it's himself, his demons, his life he must face being this way. So SAD!!! Thankfully saw his true colors before I fell deep for this master emotional manipulator.

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