If a man is over his ex, you'll know it. He'll have no reason to prove himself or explain that he is. He will not mention, nor get defensive when you ask him to speak on his past. She will be of no existence in his energy field ... He will be open , healed, body and soul. Listen not to his words, watch his actions , and then listen to see if his words support his non verbal communication. why? because the game is to be sold, not to be told... lol Dig this, c diary says this:
Research shows that, you should "Pay ATTENTION to how often he mentions his EX. If a guy mentions his ex at all, he isn’t over HER!!!!! It doesn’t matter if it’s a NEGATIVE or positive comment about her. Either way, it’s bad news. If someone mentions something repeatedly, it’s WEIGHNING on his mind. If he doesn’t mention her, it’s likely he’s over her or almost over her.
Do you get the sense that your arguments are about more than he says? Chances are, you're right. He's not arguing with you, he's arguing with her, and fails to recognize that he's using his own psychological defense mechanism of, displacement. Displacing his anger for her onto you. " Does he overreact when you are late calling? If the man has reactions that seem extreme for the situation, he may be reacting to the baggage he carries from the previous relationship".
DON'T BE FOOLED BY A BLACK MAN'S QUOTE UN QUOTE WOUNDED EGO, HE'S JUST NOT OVER HER, AND NOT THAT INTO YOU.... (HE DOESN'T RECOGNIZE YOUR GLOW) THAT'S FOR SOMEONE ELSE TO DO, who has NO REPEATED BAGGAGE!!! LOL
Ladies, invest in a man worth your stocks.... Make sure he adores you and his heart is open