Offensive Dating vs Defensive Dating

In driving , it is stated that one must drive defensively , as if a car could hit us at anytime. Well , in dating , I think that the best offense is the best defense. You date defensively as well. Meaning ,that you must date for yourself , to protect yourself. You must never date for his sake. On no! You must make sure that, you are in safe Zone that will lead to life , instead of death. Be at the right place at the right time and date the right guy! You date in a healthy way, to guarantee safety dating. You date with your seat belt on and you follow all the dating laws, to secure safe results. Dating stupid and unhealthy will only get you a ticket , and at worst your license revoked, due to being scorned.