Men will be with a woman that they know they want to spend the rest of their lives with, yet refuse to marry her.
That same man will marry a woman whom he can't see himself being with for the rest of his life, lol. Men hate commitments, yet still commit. Men say they don't want a relationship, yet they act is if they're in one, by demanding relationship acts. That same man will eff up the best thing he could have had with one woman and will make sure everything is right with the wrong woman. Men will treat the bad girls good and the good girls bad. Men will f*** one chick and make love to another. Men will say, I love you but I'm not in love with you. Men will marry a woman and not want to bare children with her , yet want to procreate with another woman that he didn't marry. Men will marry a non marriage material woman and let marriage material woman get away. Men will get married, while knowing that deep inside, she's his future ex wife, lol. Men will not commit to a woman whom they feel is out for his money, yet commit to a gold digger! Men love bitches and hate nice girls! Men love virgins but desire sluts! Men mess up and always come back later. Men make dumb decisions , only to regret it later and that's because men do things that they have to apologize for later. Men say one thing and do another! Men blow hot and cold! So how do you deal with the contradictions of a man? You don't. Don't allow contradictions into your life at all. Commit to a consistent ,drama free life. Make sure everything adds up, when it comes to men. Remember , if it puts a dent in your confidence , it's bullshit. Play like the dumb fox , until you see actions adding up to the words spoken.
Wednesday, June 26, 2013
The Longer You Wait The More Power You Have!
The longer you wait to like him, the more power you will have. Don't be so quick to like him. In fact , keep telling yourself, you don't know him yet, because in most cases it's true, you don't know him and in many cases, the truth doesn't come out until later! So don't like him so soon, because you have more power when you don't like him. Patience is a virtue. Remember, there are 12 months in a year and 24 hours in a day, along with days in the week. Take your time. There's no need to rush, because the year is going to go by anyway, best to invest your time into a real relationship.
Never Allow A Man To Disrespect You!
Never , ever allow a man to disrespect you! If he's disrespecting you, then he must be respecting somebody else. That's how it works with men. Men work in Black and White codes. If he's done nothing special for you, he most likely has done something special for another woman in the past. How man times have you given in to a disrespectful man, to only notice that he's respecting the next chic? Never be that woman. Demand your respect and if he can't accept your standards, to hell with him. Remember to never compromise your confidence for anyone! Never allow him to cancel dates at the last minute, talk to you crazy, bring drama into your life, nor mistreat you in any way. I use to date a guy who was nice to me, but also full of baggage,anxiety and drama, which he brought into our relationship. I didn't even realize it, until it was too late, because i was fogged by how nice he was to me. Once i sat myself down, i realized that, he wasn't what i wanted and wasn't giving me what i needed and that was, R-E-S-P-E-C-T. When you respect a person, you treat them the way they deserve to be treated, which was something he didn't do. Sit down and realize what it is that you need and desire and compare that with the man you're dating. Make sure it adds up. Always demand your respect.
Never be good to someone who isn't good to you. In fact, "Love only those who love you".
Never be good to someone who isn't good to you. In fact, "Love only those who love you".
How To Get A Man To Fall In Love
On several occasions of expressing to a guy about meeting someone, I was asked on two occasions by those fellows, "does he take care of you"? , "does he give you money for your bills"? What does all that mean? Men have to invest in a woman , in order to see a relationship as real. Men show their love and affection through their money and they must invest in you somehow, in order to be connected. Make sure a man is winning and dinning you, spending money on you. Make sure he's dating you for your pleasure and not just his own, because then that means that he's doing something for you. Notice how men always talk about the woman whom they invested the most in. If he can't do anything for you, then it's, "Next".
100% Confidence
Ever heard of it?
It's called believing in yourself and allowing no one to take that from you. 100% confidence is about have 0 insecurities. Well of course , everyone has an insecurity, but you can be confident within your insecurities. Be secure, within your insecurities, lol Don't hate yourself if you're unattractive or overweight. Just look yourself in the mirror and accept your flaws and be comfortable with it. Just deal with it. We don't put ourselves down! Save that for haters, your only job is, to love thyself. We don't put ourselves in situations that will undermine our confidence. Never date a man that disrespects you because if he disrespects you, he will respect the next chic. Never allow a man to play with you because you have confidence to maintain. We don't question ourselves and we don't doubt who we are. Ta hell with what people think, because here's the truth: People will soon join your band wagon. If you're 100% secure, people will treat you as your confidence reflects in itself. If its the opposite, people will treat you according to that. Your greatest gift is, self. Do yourself a favor and everyone else by, loving yourself. LET'S COMMIT TO THIS CAMPAIGN.
It's called believing in yourself and allowing no one to take that from you. 100% confidence is about have 0 insecurities. Well of course , everyone has an insecurity, but you can be confident within your insecurities. Be secure, within your insecurities, lol Don't hate yourself if you're unattractive or overweight. Just look yourself in the mirror and accept your flaws and be comfortable with it. Just deal with it. We don't put ourselves down! Save that for haters, your only job is, to love thyself. We don't put ourselves in situations that will undermine our confidence. Never date a man that disrespects you because if he disrespects you, he will respect the next chic. Never allow a man to play with you because you have confidence to maintain. We don't question ourselves and we don't doubt who we are. Ta hell with what people think, because here's the truth: People will soon join your band wagon. If you're 100% secure, people will treat you as your confidence reflects in itself. If its the opposite, people will treat you according to that. Your greatest gift is, self. Do yourself a favor and everyone else by, loving yourself. LET'S COMMIT TO THIS CAMPAIGN.
Tuesday, June 18, 2013
Be Totally Single or Totally Taken
Hate to break it to you but, either you are all the way single or you're all the way taken. Anybody ever told you that there is no in between. Men don't have grey areas, well at least real men don't. Men see Black and White colors only, so why do women recognize all the other primary and secondary colors in the color spectral? There is no in between with men. Remember that, men either see you as their woman or not their woman, period.
Either your plane is on a lay over to a relationship town, meaning you're courting for a relationship and or you're plane has a destination to nowhere and no lay over, either. Don't confuse sitting and letting time past your by, with time wasters, as a sign that you actually have a lay over and your patience is leading up to something. Know when you are wasting your time with the wrong man and let that be your fuel to walk away. You don't have to wait to get over anybody. You're a grown woman right? Be single all the way or all the way taken. In other words, if you don't have him the way you want him, you're not being all the way single nor all the way taken. When I say, be all the way single, I mean that.
Meaning no in between. No questions. No debating. No, is he the one questions. No stress. No pain. No lay overs to nowhere. Be all the way single. Meaning , go out , have fun. Date a little but nothing too serious , unless you know for sure that, he wants it to lead to a relationship. Enjoy your life and get yourself together. Love yourself until he comes along.
When I say be all the way taken , what I mean is, make sure he wants you and only you. Make sure he is emotionally available , mature and ready. Make sure he totally loves and adores you . He cares for you and has your best interest at heart. Make sure he has invited you into his world and recognizes you as his woman. Make sure he has showed you off and told the world about you.Make sure he treats you the way you want to be treated. Make sure you're not alone on weekends , holidays and especially not your birthday. Make sure you are his world!
If you can't be all the way taken , then show him what it is, by being all the way single.
Either your plane is on a lay over to a relationship town, meaning you're courting for a relationship and or you're plane has a destination to nowhere and no lay over, either. Don't confuse sitting and letting time past your by, with time wasters, as a sign that you actually have a lay over and your patience is leading up to something. Know when you are wasting your time with the wrong man and let that be your fuel to walk away. You don't have to wait to get over anybody. You're a grown woman right? Be single all the way or all the way taken. In other words, if you don't have him the way you want him, you're not being all the way single nor all the way taken. When I say, be all the way single, I mean that.
Meaning no in between. No questions. No debating. No, is he the one questions. No stress. No pain. No lay overs to nowhere. Be all the way single. Meaning , go out , have fun. Date a little but nothing too serious , unless you know for sure that, he wants it to lead to a relationship. Enjoy your life and get yourself together. Love yourself until he comes along.
When I say be all the way taken , what I mean is, make sure he wants you and only you. Make sure he is emotionally available , mature and ready. Make sure he totally loves and adores you . He cares for you and has your best interest at heart. Make sure he has invited you into his world and recognizes you as his woman. Make sure he has showed you off and told the world about you.Make sure he treats you the way you want to be treated. Make sure you're not alone on weekends , holidays and especially not your birthday. Make sure you are his world!
If you can't be all the way taken , then show him what it is, by being all the way single.
Monday, June 17, 2013
Getting Closer to finding Mr. Right
Ever heard of Karma? I bet you have but how about law of attraction karma ? or relationship karma?
Law of attraction karma is the part of you that thinks, feels and attracts what you put out into the universe , with your visions, energy and chakras.You attract more of what you put out right , rather negative or positive right ? Just as, with karma , you reap what you sow.
Well , the more you think about something , and align your thoughts , feelings , behaviors , energy , and chakras with it , wala , you shall get it, boo.
With relationship karma , it works the same. What you feel, think , believe and hold within your subconscious , about love , you will also attract into your life, period! Lets go further ! Every encounter you have with a man , from friendships, platonic, dates, to relationships shape your relationship karma! If you feel like being around this man took your further back , instead of two steps ahead , then most likely , he is affecting your relationship karma. However , if being in the presence of a man takes you two steps ahead and gets you even closer to Mr. Right, then bingo! , you have enriched your karma and now you're getting closer to Mr. Right! Remember , either a man is God sent or devil sent. Stay away from any man that will affect your relationship karma in the long run. Your goal should be , to get closer to Mr. Right , in the end. You will attract more of whatever you sow into your life, so be careful of where you drop your seed.
Law of attraction karma is the part of you that thinks, feels and attracts what you put out into the universe , with your visions, energy and chakras.You attract more of what you put out right , rather negative or positive right ? Just as, with karma , you reap what you sow.
Well , the more you think about something , and align your thoughts , feelings , behaviors , energy , and chakras with it , wala , you shall get it, boo.
With relationship karma , it works the same. What you feel, think , believe and hold within your subconscious , about love , you will also attract into your life, period! Lets go further ! Every encounter you have with a man , from friendships, platonic, dates, to relationships shape your relationship karma! If you feel like being around this man took your further back , instead of two steps ahead , then most likely , he is affecting your relationship karma. However , if being in the presence of a man takes you two steps ahead and gets you even closer to Mr. Right, then bingo! , you have enriched your karma and now you're getting closer to Mr. Right! Remember , either a man is God sent or devil sent. Stay away from any man that will affect your relationship karma in the long run. Your goal should be , to get closer to Mr. Right , in the end. You will attract more of whatever you sow into your life, so be careful of where you drop your seed.
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