Being Clear About What You Want

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"When you are 100% clear about what you want out of life, amazing things begin to happen. For example, good friends, success, quality men and happiness, etc 

Being laser beam clear about your life's goals, life's purpose and dreams and what your place is in this world is, will create magic to transform your dreams into reality". 

" when you are not clear on what you want, you become the supporting character in someone else's life" your life vision is about you, your goals and your dreams. Clarity about who you are and what you want attracts the type of men you are looking for. And when you are crystal clear about how you envision your relationship to be, it's like you send out a magical invitation for the perfect man to join your life" awwww , there's beauty in the law of attraction. 

Be crispy clear about your desires and be honest with yourself. There is nothing wrong with wanting it all. When I was in my early 20's , I use to allow men to talk me out of my standards, but now that I'm 31, please. Be clear on what you want, to the T... And do not be ashamed to say so, because that's being unclear and it's dishonoring what you deserve. 

What is it that you want? What is it that you deserve? Remember, be clear! 

You will never get what you want, as long as you are not clear on your hearts desires. Just look at the type of men you attract, to better prove this point. If you are not attracting the type of men of your hearts desires, think quietly on the fact that, perhaps you are sending unclear visions into the universe. You get what you send out, rather you choose to believe it or not! So meditate on what you want and do not let time ween you away. Be patient! 

Be Totally Single or Totally Taken

Hate to break it to you but, either you are all the way single or you're all the way taken. Anybody ever told you that there is no in between. Men don't have grey areas, well at least real men don't. Men see Black and White colors only, so why do women recognize all the other primary and secondary colors in the color spectral? There is no in between with men. Remember that, men either see you as their woman or not their woman, period.

Either your plane is on a lay over to a relationship town, meaning you're courting for a relationship and or you're plane has a destination to nowhere and no lay over, either. Don't confuse sitting and letting time past your by, with time wasters, as a sign that you actually have a lay over and your patience is leading up to something. Know when you are wasting your time with the wrong man and let that be your fuel to walk away. You don't have to wait to get over anybody. You're a grown woman right? Be single all the way or all the way taken. In other words, if you don't have him the way you want him, you're not being all the way single nor all the way taken. When I say, be all the way single, I mean that.

Meaning no in between. No questions. No debating. No, is he the one questions. No stress. No pain. No lay overs to nowhere. Be all the way single. Meaning , go out , have fun. Date a little but nothing too serious , unless you know for sure that, he wants it to lead to a relationship. Enjoy your life and get yourself together. Love yourself until he comes along.

When I say be all the way taken , what I mean is, make sure he wants you and only you. Make sure he is emotionally available , mature and ready. Make sure he totally loves and adores you . He cares for you and has your best interest at heart. Make sure he has invited you into his world and recognizes you as his woman. Make sure he has showed you off and told the world about you.Make sure he treats you the way you want to be treated. Make sure you're not alone on weekends , holidays and especially not your birthday. Make sure you are his world!
If you can't be all the way taken , then show him what it is, by being all the way single.

The Best Way To Get Over A break Up

The best way to get over a break up is to turn inward and to just love yourself. Don't look at him and don't question yourself and do not ask why you? Nor question if something is wrong with you! It is not you , know your worth. I don't care about any form of rejection ; I know my worth! I am now applying this same tactic to relationships. On the website , 2knowmyself, the author has a book on how to get over someone in a couple of days or weeks. It's easier than I ever thought. I learned this method naturally, after taking so long to get over Mr. Wrong . As soon as I started embracing my worth, I was able to release him even more . Now I laugh because I see him as the idiot who let me go! Ha ha . Know your worth and get over him fast.