If He Doesn't Want You

Hello, Male Decoded has moved and changed locations. Please refer to my new website at www.maledecoded.com My new blog location will offer more services to my readers. I will no longer write on this site, so please visit new blog site. www.maledecoded.com Follow me @Relationships 1O In the book, "Why Men Love Bitches", it states that, the bitch could care less if a man doesn't want her, because she doesn't want anyone who doesn't want her! There's a song that explains this very well and it's called , "Two Many Fish In The Sea", written by Marvalettes Remember the chorus of this song. The song is below.


Take this advice, and remember always in life:

Into each heart some tears must fall
Though you love and lose, you must stand tall
'Cause we all got to cry sometimes
I said, sigh sometimes
Pull yourself together
No use crying forever
Because there's too many fish in the sea
Too many fish in the sea
I said, there's short ones, tall ones, fine ones, kind ones
Too many fish in the sea

My mother once told me something
And every word is true
Don't waste your time on a fella
Who doesn't love you
He'll only mislead you
Only grieve you
Don't worry about him
Do without him
Because there's too many fish in the sea
Too many fish in the sea
I said, there's short ones, tall ones, fine ones, kind ones
Too many fish in the sea

Well, if the fish isn't on your line
Bait your hook and keep on trying
Don't let him get you down
There's other boys around
Because there's too many fish in the sea
Too many fish in the sea
I said, there's short ones, tall ones, fine ones, kind ones
Too many fish in the sea

I don't want nobody that don't want me
'Cause there's too many fish in the sea
Ain't gonna love nobody that don't love me, now
'Cause there's too many fish in the sea
I don't need nobody that don't need me
'Cause there's too many fish in the sea
I don't want nobody that don't love me, now
'Cause there's too many fish in the sea


Sing it!

Please remember this, if a man doesn't want you, then you don't want him either. That's how you get your power back, staying 100% confident! When I was younger , I use to argue with guys who clearly had crushes on me and would try and insult me, also known as, neg and love taps , and I would defend my stance but now that I'm 30, I ask myself why I even bothered? I know my worth . I know who I am. No man can take them from me. They may have tried , due to their own insecurities but in the end, they lost. You don't have to argue with a man nor defend your beauty because in the end , time heals and time will also show you the truth. Just rely on time, like you do in the end , because time rules in the end. Stand back and know that you don't want anybody who doesn't want you because there's too many fish in the sea! Pick your choice. The world is an ocean ;)

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Love No Man Until He Loves You 1st

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   Yes, you are first. First place. The reward and the prize. You come first. You are priority. Listen to me talk , as I minister to myself. Todays topic is about loving no man who does not love you first. In fact, as "The Rules", book discusses, "love only those who love you". Put your feelings aside and train yourself to love the one's that love you. If he has it bad for you, then it's okay to have it bad for him, but do not show your love to a man, until he first shows his tender loving care to you. Its the only way, because a man should earn your love, by first loving you, and in return he gets your love and respect. Anyone that has to work for someone else's affection appreciates and prizes that person more. It's totally psychological. Men don't appreciate what they have not earned. Play a mental game with yourself. Distant yourself , as far as you can from your emotional mental state. Do not visualize a west side love story with this man, no matter how slick his tongue is. Do not create fantasies in your head and do not have a fantasy relationship. Make him earn every bit of mental space in your head. Men, no matter how wonderful or tore up they are, believe that their love and relationship quality is special. They don't wife every woman, and nor do they want to. This helps them prize their relationship status more. Prize yourself more by using the same tactics. Use the reward system.

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Ladies why do we Act so insecure? Why do we allow a man to play us? Why get played? Look yourself in the mirror and love yourself. Confide in God, to better understand why you feel the need to find your self worth in a man. Why do you let men play you? You don't have to. He does not have to be in your life. You dont need the misery. You aré the prize! He is not the prize. No man who plays you deserves you!


Let him love your first


Until then, get the books, "Not Your Mothers Rules", written for women. " The 48 Laws of Power" , written for men, and "The Art of Seduction" , written for me


Peaceeeeeeee