Tuesday, September 10, 2013
If You Don't Have Him
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Know that , God has given you everything. You have everything you need. Whatsoever you need, your father in heaven will give it to you. You have whatever you need , so If you don't have him , you obviously don't need him. If she can steal him and or he can leave, he was never yours and if you don't have him in your life , you don't need him! ;)
The Main Ingredient
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Hello Friend, I know you miss me and I miss you too. Muah
Today's topic is , main ingredients. With relationships , I am realizing for myself that relationships should consist of main ingredients. I know we all have standards and so do I, which I expect to be met. I'm all about women getting what they want but hey! On the other hand, it's easy to let some things go, if the main ingredients are being met. For instance, you cannot make a cake without , main ingredients; flour, or eggs, but you can make one without the extra toppings that are sometimes added in the cake mix, such as, nuts, pineapple, Carmel, etc all that matters in a relationship is, the main ingredients. Does he have them or is he lacking?
If a man is everything I need him to be, I can personally do without the other foolishness , if I had to. As long as he has what it takes , we can work out the rest ;)
Trust God. Put God first
Today's topic is , main ingredients. With relationships , I am realizing for myself that relationships should consist of main ingredients. I know we all have standards and so do I, which I expect to be met. I'm all about women getting what they want but hey! On the other hand, it's easy to let some things go, if the main ingredients are being met. For instance, you cannot make a cake without , main ingredients; flour, or eggs, but you can make one without the extra toppings that are sometimes added in the cake mix, such as, nuts, pineapple, Carmel, etc all that matters in a relationship is, the main ingredients. Does he have them or is he lacking?
If a man is everything I need him to be, I can personally do without the other foolishness , if I had to. As long as he has what it takes , we can work out the rest ;)
Trust God. Put God first
Saturday, August 24, 2013
New Twitter page
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Hello boo's the new twitter name has been changed to @relationships1O
Follow us and get updates more frequently!
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Friday, August 9, 2013
2 Feel Goood!
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A relationship author wrote these words, " go from needy to, I don't need him". True words spoken. When you are needy of a man, you suddenly become empowered. When ever you are losing your power, as discussed in previous blogs, repeat those words. It helps ground you. If a man is not pursuing you, nor making you feel secure , loved, adored, uplifted and not putting you first, then you can forget about feeling confident. And if its one thing I can't stand, it's a feminine man. I cannot stand a feminine man.
The best way to get your power back is, need him not. Don't be needy and make sure you are dating a man that is honoring you in every way.
The best way to get your power back is, need him not. Don't be needy and make sure you are dating a man that is honoring you in every way.
7 Things Done That Men Find Attractive
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Seven Things That You Do On The Regular That Men Find Attractive
Reported By: Britt L
s*x appeal has been exercised by women everywhere. Flashing cleavage, sporting b**t pads and even longer weaves were believed to catch a mans attention. But the truth is, all of the miscellaneous things women do to become more attractive isn’t what captures a mans attention.
According to a survey done by Reddit, men were asked what are some things that women do that they find irresistible or, down right sexy. The answers were more innocent than s****l. Surprising right?
Ladies, these 7 normal things you do on the regular that might seem tiny to you, makes your man or men around you all the more attracted.
1. The Putting-On-Tight-Jeans Dance
In the early morning, when you’re both preparing for the day ahead, you struggle to wiggle into those too tight jeans, but that’s something your man would love to see. Something about grunts and frustration and watching you take 10 minutes squeezing into a size six when you’re an eight, melts the coldest of hearts in a man.
2. Stretching
Stretching can give your man something to look at, especially if you’re bending over or showing extreme flexibility. Also, having your arms stretched in the air, back arched and head up gets your man rattled, so go and try some yoga with him!
3. Flipping Of The Hair
This is probably the most deliberate and seductive gesture on this list. Almost every romantic comedy makes light of how some women have a patented way of flipping their hair to get a man’s attention. Slow strokes of the fingers through luscious locks? How is that NOT sexy?
4. Sneezing
In general, men are rough, callous, dirty, unkempt, hairy and lumbering. So it should come as no surprise that much of what they find so attractive in women is, well, their opposite attributes: their grace, tenderness and smoothness. And nowhere is that contrast more apparent than when you sneeze. Men tend to sneeze loudly and powerfully, like miniature volcanoes bursting; women, on the other hand, tend to have high-pitched, endearing sneezes.
5. Biting The Lips
Spend time in coffee shops or college libraries and just observe women (in as un-creepy a way as you can manage), and you will see the famous lip bite. Many a heart has been melted, songs written and duels fought, over this small, thoughtless gesture. The lip bite indicates want, and desire.
6. Touching Gently
Think of the first time you touched your boyfriend or husband. It was sensual right? Not an accidental brushing of arms but something deliberate, infused with s****l tension and romantic potential. How do you women do it?
7. Putting Hair In Ponytail
Weird, but yes. Men are so used to seeing women with their hair up, prim and proper. But it’s something about a girl dressing casual and comfortable that makes a man comfortable as well.
Now that we’ve let the cats out of the bag, don’t try too hard to incorporate all of the secrets into your everyday routine. It’s the natural motions that catch your man’s eye.
Reported By: Britt L
s*x appeal has been exercised by women everywhere. Flashing cleavage, sporting b**t pads and even longer weaves were believed to catch a mans attention. But the truth is, all of the miscellaneous things women do to become more attractive isn’t what captures a mans attention.
According to a survey done by Reddit, men were asked what are some things that women do that they find irresistible or, down right sexy. The answers were more innocent than s****l. Surprising right?
Ladies, these 7 normal things you do on the regular that might seem tiny to you, makes your man or men around you all the more attracted.
1. The Putting-On-Tight-Jeans Dance
In the early morning, when you’re both preparing for the day ahead, you struggle to wiggle into those too tight jeans, but that’s something your man would love to see. Something about grunts and frustration and watching you take 10 minutes squeezing into a size six when you’re an eight, melts the coldest of hearts in a man.
2. Stretching
Stretching can give your man something to look at, especially if you’re bending over or showing extreme flexibility. Also, having your arms stretched in the air, back arched and head up gets your man rattled, so go and try some yoga with him!
3. Flipping Of The Hair
This is probably the most deliberate and seductive gesture on this list. Almost every romantic comedy makes light of how some women have a patented way of flipping their hair to get a man’s attention. Slow strokes of the fingers through luscious locks? How is that NOT sexy?
4. Sneezing
In general, men are rough, callous, dirty, unkempt, hairy and lumbering. So it should come as no surprise that much of what they find so attractive in women is, well, their opposite attributes: their grace, tenderness and smoothness. And nowhere is that contrast more apparent than when you sneeze. Men tend to sneeze loudly and powerfully, like miniature volcanoes bursting; women, on the other hand, tend to have high-pitched, endearing sneezes.
5. Biting The Lips
Spend time in coffee shops or college libraries and just observe women (in as un-creepy a way as you can manage), and you will see the famous lip bite. Many a heart has been melted, songs written and duels fought, over this small, thoughtless gesture. The lip bite indicates want, and desire.
6. Touching Gently
Think of the first time you touched your boyfriend or husband. It was sensual right? Not an accidental brushing of arms but something deliberate, infused with s****l tension and romantic potential. How do you women do it?
7. Putting Hair In Ponytail
Weird, but yes. Men are so used to seeing women with their hair up, prim and proper. But it’s something about a girl dressing casual and comfortable that makes a man comfortable as well.
Now that we’ve let the cats out of the bag, don’t try too hard to incorporate all of the secrets into your everyday routine. It’s the natural motions that catch your man’s eye.
Wednesday, August 7, 2013
How to Tame A Man
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Follow me @Relationships 1OOk, this is a loose blog entry. I'm still learning but one thing I have noticed is, a man's bi polar behavior when it comes to relationships. Men are very bi polar when it comes to women and especially relationships. He loves me/he loves me not, say it ladies! It's a constant battle with these men. One day they want you and the next day they hate you. Men are supreme for having love/hate relationships. The best way to keep them in check and tame that beast is, to be a model for the behavior you would like to see. In other words, be consistent with your emotions, requirements, and needs. If you maintain yourself, and you don't allow yourself to be swayed , he can't do anything but correspond.
Last but not least, in words of my former homegirl, "how you choose your man is the same method you use to choose your friends". Be sure to stay away from friends who are bi polar as well. If you have friends that don't show you love nor make you smile and friends who bring you down, then wa-la, you will also have a man that does the same. To be loved requires love all the way around. It means having good friends around you as we'll
That's all for now ladies. #tamethatbeast.org lol
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Last but not least, in words of my former homegirl, "how you choose your man is the same method you use to choose your friends". Be sure to stay away from friends who are bi polar as well. If you have friends that don't show you love nor make you smile and friends who bring you down, then wa-la, you will also have a man that does the same. To be loved requires love all the way around. It means having good friends around you as we'll
That's all for now ladies. #tamethatbeast.org lol
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Men Secretly Adore Us
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Let me tell you something about a man! He is too cool for school and he knows it.
Men are so busy trying to maintain their cool calm and collectedness that, they hide their true feelings , in order to conceal them, ohhh but deep inside, they're seething! Just look for the micro signs and read between the hidden lines. Men love us, don't get it twisted. They need and love us. There are always signs. They are too proud to admit it, for the very same reasons I mentioned in my blog yesterday, "power". A man will not reveal his hand and risk the power he has gained. Not never. Men play it cool, to remain in control.
Scenario: I was out with some friends this weekend and one pal brought along a guy friend that she grew up with. He was viciously attracted to me; I could see it in his eyes, not to mention his constant striking of conversation with me. It was so cute! Anywho, he sort of ended up getting on my nerves towards the end of the night, with his playful, immature nature and things went a little sour from there. He brought drinks for me and a friend, and he also shared his food. I ended up saying something to him, playfully and he reacted in a odd way. He went on to call me a Kardashin woman and rude and everything else. We clearly got into it after he stepped out of line. He then went on to say that he really appreciated me allowing him to hang out with me and my friends and that he thought I was cool and that he was attracted to me and blah , blah , blah
So he said all of that to confirm that my " high and mighty" attitude was legit in the first place. Here I was honoring myself and being a lady and he tried to take that away from me by calling me rude , etc only to tell me that he appreciated being in my presence and that he was attracted to me in the end.
Point of the story is this, he only had a problem with my queenliness because he couldn't give it to me himself. Once he saw that he had hurt my feelings, he then went on to tell me how honored he was to have been around me. You see what I mean, men love us! They feel honored to be around us. They like us and they want us. Lets get it right, men need us, just as much as we need them or even more than we need them. Don't be fooled by their cool guy act, they are for us 100%.
Keep your head held high!
Don't forget to follow me @maletalk101
Men are so busy trying to maintain their cool calm and collectedness that, they hide their true feelings , in order to conceal them, ohhh but deep inside, they're seething! Just look for the micro signs and read between the hidden lines. Men love us, don't get it twisted. They need and love us. There are always signs. They are too proud to admit it, for the very same reasons I mentioned in my blog yesterday, "power". A man will not reveal his hand and risk the power he has gained. Not never. Men play it cool, to remain in control.
Scenario: I was out with some friends this weekend and one pal brought along a guy friend that she grew up with. He was viciously attracted to me; I could see it in his eyes, not to mention his constant striking of conversation with me. It was so cute! Anywho, he sort of ended up getting on my nerves towards the end of the night, with his playful, immature nature and things went a little sour from there. He brought drinks for me and a friend, and he also shared his food. I ended up saying something to him, playfully and he reacted in a odd way. He went on to call me a Kardashin woman and rude and everything else. We clearly got into it after he stepped out of line. He then went on to say that he really appreciated me allowing him to hang out with me and my friends and that he thought I was cool and that he was attracted to me and blah , blah , blah
So he said all of that to confirm that my " high and mighty" attitude was legit in the first place. Here I was honoring myself and being a lady and he tried to take that away from me by calling me rude , etc only to tell me that he appreciated being in my presence and that he was attracted to me in the end.
Point of the story is this, he only had a problem with my queenliness because he couldn't give it to me himself. Once he saw that he had hurt my feelings, he then went on to tell me how honored he was to have been around me. You see what I mean, men love us! They feel honored to be around us. They like us and they want us. Lets get it right, men need us, just as much as we need them or even more than we need them. Don't be fooled by their cool guy act, they are for us 100%.
Keep your head held high!
Don't forget to follow me @maletalk101
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