Never , ever allow a man to disrespect you! If he's disrespecting you, then he must be respecting somebody else. That's how it works with men. Men work in Black and White codes. If he's done nothing special for you, he most likely has done something special for another woman in the past. How man times have you given in to a disrespectful man, to only notice that he's respecting the next chic? Never be that woman. Demand your respect and if he can't accept your standards, to hell with him. Remember to never compromise your confidence for anyone! Never allow him to cancel dates at the last minute, talk to you crazy, bring drama into your life, nor mistreat you in any way. I use to date a guy who was nice to me, but also full of baggage,anxiety and drama, which he brought into our relationship. I didn't even realize it, until it was too late, because i was fogged by how nice he was to me. Once i sat myself down, i realized that, he wasn't what i wanted and wasn't giving me what i needed and that was, R-E-S-P-E-C-T. When you respect a person, you treat them the way they deserve to be treated, which was something he didn't do. Sit down and realize what it is that you need and desire and compare that with the man you're dating. Make sure it adds up. Always demand your respect.
Never be good to someone who isn't good to you. In fact, "Love only those who love you".
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